With her Rock Your Marriage program, Mirjam has put down a super valuable and powerful method to give your marriage a great and positive boost. Clear videos supplemented with worksheets, meditations and in-depth assignments provide you with good tools to get started. For me, the fact that I could do this program on an individual basis was one of the main reasons to start with it. Because I was not dependent on the cooperation of my partner (such as relationship therapy), I was able to go for it. The program has also fully proven that from your own position, and the things that concern, process and change from there, you automatically include the other person. Because I took a closer look at my thoughts, feelings and behavior and, for example, started to act differently, my partner reacted differently. By changing patterns myself, my partner gets the chance to react (unnoticed) differently, which in my case brought a lot of peace, space and extra motivation to continue with this program. I am no longer stuck in blame towards him, I am more open to my own feelings and have started to communicate more openly about this. He has also become more open (about his feelings) and that means that we have much more fun together, communicate better, we have much less struggle and it is really better to be together. We do fun things together more often and really grow closer together. I have become curious again about what is on his mind. And I sincerely enjoy doing sweet things for him again. This is because in the program I have also considered my own needs and put them back on the front. By taking better care of myself, I can now also look after my partner (and my children) more easily. And I especially enjoy it more. It really brought us a lot!