{"id":3876,"date":"2020-11-18T09:00:32","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T08:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/?p=3876"},"modified":"2020-11-18T08:32:21","modified_gmt":"2020-11-18T07:32:21","slug":"episode-30","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/nl\/episode-30\/","title":{"rendered":"Episode #30 \u2018Hij is nu eenmaal zo\u2019 \u2013 wat deze gedachte doet met je relatie en hoe je daar vanaf komt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Laatst kreeg ik een mailtje van een lieve dame die heel graag haar relatie wilde verbeteren. Ze schreef me: \u2018Het heeft eigenlijk geen zin, want mijn man heeft narcistische trekjes.\u2019<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dit soort redeneringen hoor ik ontzettend vaak. Het kan niet, want \u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Daarom wil ik je in deze episode uitnodigen om te bedenken wat deze gedachte doet met jouw relatie en laat ik je graag zien hoe je dit kunt\u00a0<em>shiften<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Links uit deze episode:<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/maris-coaching.webinargeek.com\/5-geheimen-om-de-spark-terug-te-brengen-in-je-relatie-zelfs-als-je-dagelijks-aan-scheiden-denkt\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Webinar De Vijf Geheimen om de Spark weer Terug te Brengen in Jouw Relatie<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/thework.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/LB_dut_29may2012_a4_web.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Worksheet<\/a> van Byron Katie\u2019s The Work<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/nl\/spice-Challenge\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Challenge Spice Up Your Marriage<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><iframe style=\"border: none;\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/16841666\/height\/360\/theme\/legacy\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/backward\/\" width=\"100%\" height=\"360\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Laatst kreeg ik een mailtje van een lieve dame die heel graag haar relatie wilde verbeteren. Ze schreef me: \u2018Het heeft eigenlijk geen zin, want mijn man heeft narcistische trekjes.\u2019 Dit soort redeneringen hoor ik ontzettend vaak. Het kan niet, want \u2026 Daarom wil ik je in deze episode uitnodigen om te bedenken wat deze &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/nl\/episode-30\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Episode #30 \u2018Hij is nu eenmaal zo\u2019 \u2013 wat deze gedachte doet met je relatie en hoe je daar vanaf komt<\/span> Lees verder &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3266,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[47],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Episode #30 \u2018Hij is nu eenmaal zo\u2019 \u2013 wat deze gedachte doet met je relatie en hoe je daar vanaf komt - Mirjam Maris<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/nl\/episode-30\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"nl_NL\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Episode #30 \u2018Hij is nu eenmaal zo\u2019 \u2013 wat deze gedachte doet met je relatie en hoe je daar vanaf komt - Mirjam Maris\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Laatst kreeg ik een mailtje van een lieve dame die heel graag haar relatie wilde verbeteren. 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