{"id":12558,"date":"2022-10-19T15:03:27","date_gmt":"2022-10-19T13:03:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/?p=12558"},"modified":"2022-10-19T15:53:48","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T13:53:48","slug":"what-can-you-do-for-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/nl\/what-can-you-do-for-love\/","title":{"rendered":"What can YOU do for love?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ask not what your partner can change for you,<br \/>\nAsk what you can do for love.<\/p>\n<p>Vrijwel altijd als ik vrouwen vraag wat er mis is in hun relatie zeggen ze: als mijn partner nou eens gewoon \u2026. (Vul maar in).<\/p>\n<p>Heel begrijpelijk, ik snap het.<br \/>\nZo dacht ik 4 jaar geleden ook.<\/p>\n<p>Het probleem van deze denkwijze is alleen:<br \/>\nWat als je partner het niet (precies zoals jij wilt) doet?<br \/>\nDan blijf je vast zitten in een vicieuze cirkel.<\/p>\n<p>En intussen word jij meer en meer een vrouw die je niet wilt zijn:<br \/>\nEen die uitbarst naar haar partner &#8211; of misschien erger &#8211; zo\u2019n kort lontje heeft dat haar kinderen het ook moeten ontgelden.<br \/>\nEen die vaker chagrijnig, moe en uitgeblust is dan ze zelf wil toegeven.<\/p>\n<p>Het goede nieuws is:<br \/>\nEr is een oplossing! (En ja, die heb ik voor je)<\/p>\n<p>Een klant schreef laatst:<br \/>\n(Dankzij het programma) ben ik nu een veel betere partner.<br \/>\nMijn man volgde mij eigenlijk automatisch.<\/p>\n<p>DAT dus!<br \/>\nEn voor het geval jij nu denkt: klinkt leuk maar dat lukt nooooit met mijn partner -&gt;<br \/>\nDeze mindset houdt jouw groei tegen. Zo simpel is het, ik kan het niet mooier maken.<\/p>\n<p>Wil je voor altijd vast zitten in de loop: dat lukt nooit? Of wil je &#8211; met de handvatten die ik je geef &#8211; eens kijken wat er gebeurt als je je hart opent voor wat er w\u00e9l mogelijk is?<\/p>\n<p>Kies je voor de eerste optie (vastzitten), schrijf je dan svp uit voor mijn podcast.<br \/>\nKies je voor de tweede optie (kijken wat er mogelijk is), doe dan mee aan de nieuwe training \u201cRock je Relatie in 4 dagen\u201d van 2-7 november as.<\/p>\n<p>De training is gratis en geheel vernieuwd. <a href=\"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/schrijfjein\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hier schrijf je je in.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>De podcast episode van deze week gaat hier ook over: what You can do for love &#x2764;&#xfe0f;. Je beluistert deze <a href=\"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/nl\/episode-117\/\">hier<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Alle liefs,<br \/>\nMirjam<\/p>\n<p>P.s. Deze Rock je Relatie in 4 dagen training komt dit jaar niet meer terug. Wil jij voor de kerst al verandering zien? <a href=\"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/schrijfjein\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Schrijf je dan nu in!<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ask not what your partner can change for you, Ask what you can do for love. Vrijwel altijd als ik vrouwen vraag wat er mis is in hun relatie zeggen ze: als mijn partner nou eens gewoon \u2026. (Vul maar in). Heel begrijpelijk, ik snap het. Zo dacht ik 4 jaar geleden ook. Het probleem &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/mirjammaris.com\/nl\/what-can-you-do-for-love\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">What can YOU do for love?<\/span> Lees verder &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":12217,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[172,184],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>What can YOU do for love? - Back To Love Podcast - Mirjam Maris<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Vraag niet wat je partner kan veranderen voor jou. 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